Ceremony advice

Before the vows.

Because somebody should be talking about the ceremony.

Straight answers, useful guidance, and the things couples usually don’t know to ask until they’re already in it.

From booking your officiant to writing your vows and deciding what actually belongs in the ceremony, this is where we talk it through.

Kesha officiating a wedding ceremony outdoors

Planning your ceremony

Don’t Wait Until the Last Minute to Book Your Officiant

The person standing beside you at the altar will shape one of the most important parts of the day. Here’s when to book, what to ask, and why waiting until the last minute limits more than your options.

Read This Before You Book
Kesha smiling while speaking with guests about wedding ceremonies

Vow writing

Writing Personal Vows

Your vows are not a writing contest, and you do not need to become a poet overnight. You need something honest, specific, and possible to say out loud without losing yourself—or your place.

Help Me With My Vows
Open wedding vow books beside soft white and blush flowers

Making it personal

What Actually Makes a Ceremony Personal?

Personal does not mean adding every tradition, reading, ritual, and inside joke you can find. It means choosing the details that belong—and leaving out the ones that don’t.

Make It Personal
Newlyweds joyfully jumping the broom during their outdoor wedding ceremony

Your ceremony

You’ve thought about the ceremony. Now let’s talk about yours.

Let’s Talk